Do you make lists? Do you wake up daily to tackle the ever-growing list and go to bed unsatisfied when you haven’t crossed off every item?

If you’re run by a human doing program, this is very likely related to your mother program. Like you, your mother probably knew no other way but to do, do, do. This program was uploaded to your mind program from the moment of conception and reinforced by societal and cultural definitions of success as doing ever more.

For many mothers this program is so ...

“Mother’s love is peace.”

— Erich Fromm

We each enter this world through the portal of our mother. Her body nurtured us, and her mind cloud intertwined with our own—uploading her inner data as ours, before we even left the womb. So, it’s no wonder who we are as women and as men has much to do with the mother program in our mind cloud.

Our mother’s program shapes what it means to us to be women and men; how we identify with those roles; and how we interact and engage (or don’t) in relationship...

As we continue our lives through this new decade, it’s important that we take notice of the massive technological advancements the world has seen over the last 10 years. Tablets, androids, virtual reality, artificial intelligence, electric cars, and quantum supremacy have become part of our daily lives. The world is changing rapidly right in front of our eyes. And something else is changing in full view too—motherhood, the state of experience, and raising a child.

It’s been almost 40 years sinc...

"All problems come from the family."

— Alejandro Jodorowsky

We’re living in times where separation has become an epidemic. Believe it or not, it all started with our families.

Surprising?

Not so much, once we realize that our family came first and taught us everything we know about how to perceive and interact with the world around us. For most, family (or those who replaced them) is the single most important influence in our life. And how can it not be? After all, through our families, o...

The view that the universe is deeply interconnected has been held since ancient times. Today, science proves what ancients knew long ago—that we live in an interconnected universe in which all interconnected parts affect the whole and vice versa. However, most of us either don’t know or don’t seem to be aware of this, perhaps because we can’t perceive it.

We believe everything is separate. And this has to do mainly with the perception we have integrated from our family and the surrounding envir...

Never forget that justice is what love looks like in public.

— Cornel West 

It seems like the world we live in isn't a safe place for everyone. Maybe you were misjudged or treated inequitably due to learned prejudice and the unconscious bias of others. Or perhaps you weren't aware you were the one inflicting injustice due to the injustice program you are resonating with and unconsciously repeating from those you grew up or surrounded yourself with. 

The unanswered need for fairness is amon...

One of the most heartbreaking experiences one can feel as a human being is rejection or feeling unloved.

No matter our age, ethnicity, or skin color; the family we grew up with; the religion, culture, or political party we belong to; or any other part we identify with, without exception, we all need to be treated with love, kindness, and compassion. 

But what happens when that is not the case? When in spite of your good intentions and trying to do your best, after sharing your unconditional lo...

“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.”

— Mark Twain

To say the least, 2020 has been a year full of challenges. But as the year comes to a close, we may be reflecting on how we can move into 2021 with more meaning and more wholeness. Some of the questions I’m asking myself these days are: How has 2020 affected and changed my life? What did I learn during these challenging times? What should I change in me to overcome all the challenges I went ...

"Often, it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self."

— Karen Salmansohn 

Many of us are again in lockdown and forced to close our now-struggling businesses once more, some of us having lost our jobs and lifestyles, in a time when we feel more divided than ever. When discord in the political world in so many of our nations seems disconnected from the purpose of caring for and uniting people, and when we are bombarded with misinformation and are confined not only to ...

“Some might say: ‘Fragmentation of cities, religions, political systems, conflicts in the form of wars, general violence, fratricide, etc., are the reality. Wholeness is only an ideal, toward which we should perhaps strive.’ But this is not what is being said here. Rather, what should be said is that wholeness is what is real, and that fragmentation is the response of this whole to man’s action, guided by illusory perception, which is shaped by fragmentary thought.”

—David Bohm

These are diffi...